Day 9: It is an honor to host Chuck Sandy in my blog!
I have always enjoyed his stories and he always gives us something to think about.
Happy birthday dear Chuck! May the force be with you!
Stories from some In-Between Times
December is an in-between
time -- a time when we finish one year
and get ready for the next one, a time when we wait for Christmas and the joys
and pleasures of this holiday. In many
traditions, the four weeks leading up to Christmas are known as Advent and
people mark the passing days in different ways. One way people do this is by
sharing special, seasonal stories.
One of these stories is O.
Henry’s The Gift of The Magi which is about a poor young couple who love each other very much. The
woman in the story has beautiful long hair. Her husband has a gold watch which
is the one single valuable thing he owns. Otherwise, they have almost nothing –
only enough to live a very basic life together. Maybe you know couples like
this.
As Christmas approaches, each of them thinks
about how they could buy a gift for the other, and separately they come up with
a very beautiful and surprising solution. If you’ve read the story, you’ll know
what the solution is. If you haven’t read the story, read it now. It’s very
short, and you can read it online here.
And now that you know the
story, let me tell you another one.
Several years ago, I read
this story to a group of university students in Japan. Once we had discussed it and worked through
some activities, we decided to work in groups to come up with our own
modern-day versions of the story. Each group had about 30 minutes to do this.
When everyone was finished, a
leader from each group told their modern version of The Gift of the Magi to the
class. All of the versions were very good but the one that everyone liked best
was the one about two poor college students who were very much in love and
facing some difficult decisions.
Because their families didn’t
like each other, it was very hard for them to see each other. That’s one of the
reasons they were so worried. The biggest reason for their worry was that the
young woman in this group’s story was pregnant and the couple didn’t know what
to do. Neither of them had much money and they couldn’t even afford to get an
apartment together. It seemed like they might have to run away and hope for the
best. Meanwhile, the present they gave each other was a peaceful evening on
which they decided not to worry. Though this story was very different from the
original, it was really good. Everyone in my class had tears in their eyes when
they heard it. Then the bell rang and
class was over.
A few days later, one of the
young women from that class came to my office and told me she really liked the
activities we’d done in class and was very moved by The Gift of The Magi. Then
she paused and looked at me for some moments before telling me that she was
pregnant and might have to drop out of school. I comforted her as best I could
and told her not to worry. It was a few days before Christmas and I didn’t see
her again until sometime in January the following year.
Already there’s a lot you
might discuss and think about. Maybe you’ll do this in a class. Maybe you’ll do
this on your own. In either case, please think about the students I just told
you about. Let’s call the woman Junko and her boyfriend Hiroshi. What do you think they did and how is their
story similar to and different from the couple in The Gift Of The Magi? How
were these two couples living in an in-between time? How about you? How is this
season and in-between time for you and your friends? And of course here you’ll
want to come up with other questions to think about and discuss, too.
Now let me tell you the rest
of my story: Junko stayed in college and
though it was very hard for her, she finished the school year and went on to
graduate. Junko and Hiroshi got married and often brought their baby to school
with them.
At that time, this was a
completely unusual thing to do and I really admired them for it. Now years later they have a very happy
family. I saw them in the grocery store not long ago and after talking for a
little while we wished each other a merry Christmas. Merry Christmas to all of
you, too.
1 comment:
Beautiful! Loving!
Great project Theodora!
Chuck... the Best!
Hugs,
Fabiana
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